Trust Your Intuition to Attract Love and Live Aligned
Harnessing Your Intuition to Manifest Healthy, Fulfilling Relationship
Our intuition is one of our strongest guides. It protects us, helps us avoid danger, and leads us toward joy and fulfillment -we simply need to listen.
But how can we use this inner wisdom to attract and recognize the right relationships? How do you trust your gut feeling about someone new? How can intuition help you find lasting love?
When you learn to trust it, your higher self will guide you toward connections that reflect your true desires and needs. Whether you’re seeking new love, deepening existing bonds, or living more authentically, here’s how to use your intuition to invite healthy, aligned relationships into your life.
Have you ever ignored a gut feeling about someone and later regretted it? You're not alone. We've all been there.
About Me
I'm Janet Rae Orth, an intuitive reader and spiritual coach with over 30 years of experience helping people trust their inner guidance in love and life. Through thousands of sessions, I've learned that our intuition is our most reliable compass - especially when it comes to recognizing healthy, aligned relationships. When we learn to listen to those inner signals, everything changes.
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Step 1: How to Trust Your Intuition in New Relationships
The first step to attracting healthy love-and living an aligned life - is getting comfortable with listening to your feelings. Intuition often speaks through emotion, especially when something feels off.
In my intuitive readings, clients often share stories of long-term relationships that never felt quite right. When I say, “You knew,” they almost always nod.
Learning how to trust your intuition in relationships starts with recognizing these emotional signals. When you know how to use intuition for better relationships, you'll stop second-guessing yourself.
Why We Ignore Our Gut Instincts
So why do we ignore those gut instincts? Why do we push through discomfort, brushing it off as nerves or overthinking? The truth is, red flags show up for a reason.
When you meet someone new-a romantic partner, a friend, a colleague-check in: Do you feel relaxed and grounded? Or tense and unsure?
Pay attention to how they make you feel. Do they listen with care and make you feel seen? Or do they seem dismissive, critical, or aloof? Your intuition knows. Trust it.
Step 2: How to Use Intuition to Recognize Red Flags in Dating
The next step is learning to stay in your own emotional lane. Your feelings are yours-and they’re some of the most important signals for your emotional well-being.
When you shift your focus to how someone else feels-whether they like you, whether you’re impressing them, or if they think you’re "good enough" - you’re stepping out of your lane and abandoning your own truth.
Intuition isn’t about reading their emotions. It’s about honoring yours.
The Cost of Abandoning Your Truth
If you’re feeling anxious, insecure, or unsettled, it might be because you’re trying to earn love or prove your worth to someone who simply isn’t aligned with you. Instead, tune in to how you feel in their presence.
Do you feel calm, grounded, and free to be yourself?
Or do you feel like you’re shrinking, second-guessing, or pretending to be someone you’re not?
These emotional cues are your intuition speaking. When someone is right for you - romantic or otherwise - you’ll feel safe, seen, and supported. When they’re not, your body and heart will let you know.
Listen closely. Your intuition is always trying to guide you back to your authentic self.
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Step 3: Follow Your Intuition
Once you’ve tuned in to your feelings and learned to stay in your own lane, the next step is to follow your intuition.
Whether you're connecting with someone romantically, professionally, or platonically - if you feel at ease, uplifted, and like you could talk for hours, go there. That inner sense of comfort and joy is your intuition saying, “This feels right. Keep exploring.”
When Your Body Says "Yes" vs "No
But if you feel tense, guarded, or like you can’t fully be yourself - listen just as carefully. Those feelings are not random. Your body and emotions are responding to something misaligned with your best interests.
Think of it like an animal’s instinct. If a dog senses safety and connection, it’ll sit calmly by your side. If it doesn’t, it’ll keep its distance. We have that same inner radar.
Trust yours. It’s often spot on.
This is how intuition guides you to healthy relationships - by helping you recognize when someone feels energetically aligned with your values and authentic self.
Step 4: Shine as Your Authentic Self
Once you’ve tuned in, the next step is to follow that inner nudge-even if it leads you somewhere unexpected.
When someone makes you feel light, energized, and effortlessly yourself, lean in. That’s your intuition whispering, “This feels good. Keep going.”
And when something feels off-even if everything looks perfect on paper-honor that too. Your body and emotions don’t lie. Just like animals sense energy, your inner wisdom is always reading the room. Trust it.
The more you stay true to your feelings, respond honestly to your intuition, and act from your authentic self, the more magnetic you become. You begin to radiate a quiet, undeniable confidence that draws the right people and experiences to you - effortlessly.
Your passions, values, and energy become a beacon for those who resonate with your truth. Whether it’s a romantic partner, a soul friend, or a new opportunity, the connections that are meant for you will find their way when you’re living in alignment.
It’s when we stop chasing, stop shape-shifting, and simply become ourselves that everything begins to shift. That’s when the love, support, and possibilities your soul has been waiting for finally arrive.
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When you align with your authentic self, you naturally attract relationships that reflect your truth. Your intuition is always working for your highest good - you just need to learn how to listen.
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"When you trust your inner guidance, everything changes." — Janet Rae Orth
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